Amanda Lynn Bowers
Age 32 of Hamilton, passed away quietly in her sleep at her home on Thursday January 24,2013
She was born October 23, 1980 to Richard E and Cindy( Lovejoy) Bowers. Amanda graduated from New Miami High school and D Russell Lee vocational school in May of 1999. She was employed at Cincinnati Financial for 14 years. She loved traveling, New Orleans being one of her favorites and the smoky mountains. And She loved her dog Harley.
She is survived by her Mother, Cindy Brehm, Grandmother Barbara Mick, Fiancee' Billy Guthrie Aunts, Ginger( Roger) Rapien and Sandy Lovejoy and Sister Jennifer Barrett. close friends Wilma(mitchel) Guthrie. And many relatives and friends.
She was proceeded in Death by her father Richard E. Bowers, Grandfather, Paul H. Mick, Richard and Dorothy and Angelouise Bowers and her great grandparents Dan and Helen Schutlz
Services are private for the family at 9 am to 10 am, 10 am to 11 for friends. Burial will be following he funeral services at Hickory Flats Cementary in Overpeck Ohio. In Lieu of flowers the family request that donations to an animal shelter or wild life refuge of the donor's choice in her name.
I buried my baby yesterday, she was laid to rest in a soft pink casket with roses. she wore a beautiful white gown with pearl buttons at her bodice. she wore her diamond engagement ring from her fiance Billy. Amanda looked like a beautiful Angel. She held one pink rose in her hands and a gold locket with a picture of her dog whitey and her papaw was wrapped aroudn her right hand. Her sister, Jennifer, placed a picture of her and Amanda When they were little., into the casket. at the bottom of her feet. was the urn that held her dog Nikki's ashes.
I only mention this for two reasons. The day after Amanda passed, My twin sister, who has cerebral palsy, came down that morning, calm. She told our mother that Amanda had came to her in a dream, hugged her and kissed her and told her that she was fine and not to worry but she wanted Nikki to come with her. the second being, of all the people that amanda would appear to. Sandy would be the one that would believe and understand it more. this I believe helped sandy. She believes it so much, that she handled saying good by.
when it came time for me to say goodbye, i bent over the casket, kissed her forehead, I told her That I love you, and you wait for me.
this is so hard. to wake up every day and know shes not going to be there. but i do take solace in the fact, she did not suffer, and she went peacefully. A mother's love never dies, I will see her again. I just need to believe shes happy. and that she is in no pain. I can live with that.
My daughter Amanda, passed away thursday afternoon in her sleep at home. My heart is broken and my soul has died.
I love you Amanda, my cherished daughter. I will miss you forever. I will see you when I get there.
Rest in peace.
Love Mom.
COMMENTS
Oh, I'm so sorry doll. *hugs you* If you need anyone to talk to please message me I'm here for you.
Aww I am sorry hun! Hugs you! If you need someone to talk to you can message me.
I am sorry to hear such sad news. :(
I see that you have love and support here and that makes me happy to see.
I am so sorry to hear that Cindy. My thoughts are with you.
went to chemo today, the cat scan came back showing that the nodule in my liver is gone, and the cancer cells are shrinking and am responding well to chemo!!! did such a happy dance today!!!!
I had my ct scan done Friday, I resume chemo on the 16th, I hope its good news. I feel great. I am thinking positively. I am doing what I am supposed to do. but I hate this waiting. And I know it wont be the last waiting I will do. I just want to hear the words. "REMISSION".
I think my wish is to hear that they made a mistake or its not as bad as first thought. Hey it can happen! lol
cat scan slated for the 11th. i hope it turns out great!
going out to lunch with my cousin Tracy today. I am so glad I found her on facebook. she really is nice and i wish we could have grown up together. but its nice that we can catch up. I invited her to our family christmas and she brought goodies.. its funny that we have so much in common.
going through chemo i have discovered I have no tolerance for bullshit or drama. I have no problem telling those causing it to shut the hell up and move on.
I can't wait to move out of here in march. I used to love my little house, but the neighbors i cant stand. they dont understand the words, mind your own business. rumor has it that they are moving out. fine by me. I had enough drama when I lived in the apartment complex.
The privacy that I have guarded so jealousy is shattered by these people. they dont know me but love to sit and talk about me to the other neighbors. i couldnt care less. I have better things to do than to worry about what they think or feel. and they are rotten pet owners. its crossed my mind a few times to call the dog warden on them, but they will get in trouble all on their own without any help from me.
so i get even, petty i know, but turning up my music as loud as it will go. pretty much makes me smile :)
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KynthiaLucian
22:56 Jan 30 2013
I am so sorry for your loss.
Cinnamon
23:12 Jan 30 2013
I love you, and I'm so sorry that you have to live through this pain. Just know that I am here, and you are in my heart.
shellsbells
00:07 Jan 31 2013
I am so sorry for your loss, i have tears in my eyes and an ache in my heart for you~
shellsbells
00:07 Jan 31 2013
I am so sorry for your loss, i have tears in my eyes and an ache in my heart for you~
shellsbells
00:07 Jan 31 2013
I am so sorry for your loss, i have tears in my eyes and an ache in my heart for you~
shellsbells
00:08 Jan 31 2013
sorry i dont know why it left 3... :/